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Here is Renee…
Visions of the perfect Christmas danced in my head.
For the first time in our married life, my husband and I were hosting both sets of parents, most of our siblings and a few extra loved ones for the holidays. They all lived out of town, so having them with us for the holidays felt like a dream come true.
But somewhere in the midst of all the preparations, I got tangled up in Christmas lights and unrealistic expectations. And, by the time everyone got to our house, I could not wait for them to leave!!
The week before Christmas, it dawned on me that I didn’t know how to cook a turkey, and all hope was dashed when I discovered (the day before Christmas) that grocery-store turkeys are frozen and need 48 hours to thaw. It was too late to pre-order a fancy honey-baked hams or roasted turkeys so we ended up with Bojangles friend turkeythat year, served on plates that didn’t match my Christmas table cloth with napkins that stood awkwardly, half bent over for lack of the support from the cute napkin rings I forgot to get at Target that week.
Christmas came and so did all our guests. We had a house full of people, but sadly I had an empty, grumpy heart.
Christmas day was a big ole disappointment.
Walking through what looked like a landfill of crumpled wrapping paper in our living room, I felt overwhelmed by my hopes and dreams of the “perfect Christmas” that hadn’t come true.
I knew I should be grateful but something was missing.
While kids chased uncles with remote control cars and grandparents napped on the couch, I snuck upstairs to our bedroom closet and sat down on the floor. Taking a deep breath, I tried not to cry. Instead I opened my Bible to read the Christmas story in Luke chapter 2 hoping if I could just put myself in the story it might change the one I was living.
Slowly, I let each word remind me of the first Christmas and God’s promise that came true in Bethlehem.
“She gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped Him in cloths and placed Him in a manger…” Luke 2:7 (NIV).
Closing my eyes, I imagined Mary wrapping baby Jesus. like a gift Her hands carefully folding each corner of cloth. Like a beautiful bow on the perfect Christmas gift, she placed a kiss on his forehead.
I sat there just taking in that image, and then I noticed a cross reference at the bottom of the page from Isaiah 7:14 that read: “
The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and you will call him Immanuel, God with us.”
God with us.
God with me.
Now I knew what I was missing. I had been so focused on creating the perfect Christmas that I’d forgotten to unwrap the perfect gift: Immanuel, my God with me.
Bowing my head, I pictured a gift under my tree, waiting to be opened so He could reveal Himself to me.
That day in my close, I unwrapped the gift of God’s presence, inviting His calm into my chaos. His perspective to replace my expectations, and His joy to help me enjoy the gifts of my imperfect Christmas waiting downstairs.
Simply pausing to acknowledge and thank Jesus for being {with me} brought a peace to my heart unlike anything matching table settings or the perfect turkey could ever bestow.
And, guess what? It ended up being an “almost” perfect Christmas after all!
5 Ways To Unwrap His Christmas Presence
- Place a nativity at your bedside so you can reflect on the gift of Christ each night before you fall asleep and each morning as you wake up.
- Write on an index card “God is with me” and carry it with you all throughout December. When you feel stressed, thank Jesus out loud for being “with you.
- Plan time every day to be with Jesus: to sit still in His presence, soak in the perspective of His Word, and bask in His peace as you work, drive, wrap gifts, cook, entertain, etc.
- Listen to worship songs to remind you of the gift of Christmas – Immanuel – God with you.
- Make a list of expectations and preparations that could rob you of joy and consume your focus this Christmas. Place the list in a gift box and wrap it in God’s presence with a prayer – asking Him to give you His perspective and peace for everything you listed
ENTER TO WIN:
WHAT is ONE way you will intentionally unwrap the gift of God’s presence this Christmas?? Choose one from those listed above or share an idea or tradition of your own.
Share your answer in the comments below this post and you will be entered to win Renee’s giveaway! She will be choosing 2 winners who will each receive 2 gift sets (one to keep and one to give away). Each gift set will include Renee’s beautiful new “Come To Me” journal along with her favorite journaling pen and a $5 Starbucks gift card.
Winners will be announced Tuesday, December 22nd! And, a grand prize winner will be chosen exclusively from the names of those who enter to win every day, under all 12 posts!
Renee Swope is a Word-lover, heart-encourager, story-teller and grace-needer. She’s also best-selling author of A Confident Heart, but most know her best as co-host of Proverbs 31 Ministries’ radio program “Everyday Life with Lysa & Renee.” Renee’s favorite place to be is next to her husband, JJ, and their three children: Joshua (?20?), Andrew (18) and ?Aster (7), who their family traveled together to adopt from Ethiopia in 2009. Find more encouragement from Renee at www.ReneeSwope.com.
Merry Christmas!!
Renee
We love to listen to Christmas music…usually starting before Thanksgiving! :)
We have always been a praying family but this is a particularly trying season with unexpected difficulties. There are way less presents under the tree and yet I am thankful there is anything at all. The Lord is changing my perspective and it is awesome.
This year I am doing a 31 day Christmas Scripture Writing plan I found on Pinterest. Each day there is a verse that I write out that deals with Advent. It helps me stay focused on Jesus, and not the craziness that seems to wrap itself around this time of year. Those moments spent in the Word are life-giving.
Christmas music especially o holy night it always puts my mind on Jesus and that wonderful night of His birth
We always have Christmas music going. I love doing small studies on Christmas thru the bible. One way as a family we also give. We find a family or special thing going on and give away!!! This year we donated a bunch of blankets we don’t need anymore. We had a friend going to Chicago to give to the homeless. Last year we walked around and passed out cookies on the streets downtown. God Bless those without.
I like the idea of making a list of all my expectations and preparations of what I can do to make things turn out to be all about our Lord and Saviour. Also to make a list of expectations and preparations of everything that can and has gone over wrong over the years. Since I stay home by myself a lot getting out in public and around people causes me a lot of natural anxiety especially since this will be the first year we’re celebrating Christmas with both my kids, their spouses and 1 grandchild. If I wrap the lists in a box and put it under the tree everytime I walk by it I will know to pray for the expectations and preparation. The anxiety comes from me. I know God can take it away from me and will give me a peace throughout that Special Day. When things run smoothly I will plan more Special times with my Lord and my earthly family. I have really liked these 4 days of thoughts and how to live through them before the day is actually here.
I have reminders throughout the house and car to remind me the reason for the season. I love the idea of putting a nativity scene beside your bed. I am going to have to do that. Another reminder is from reading Unglued by Lysa Terkeurst and doing an online bible study through Proverbs 31 that just ended. This really was the perfect time for me to re read that wonderful book.
I really struggle with unrealistic expectations around Christmas. I am trying to spend more time in the Word and with Him so that I can focus on what His expectations are for me rather than the ones I have. I am also doing the 31 day Christmas Scripture writing this month and it has helped all ready.
Honestly listening to my young son Henry (11 years old and in 5th grade) talk about school, rehearsals for his Christmas play, talking with him about scriptures he learned about in school during the week, playing with our Guinea pigs with him. He has Aspergers and he sees things in life in the most wonderful way. I’ve learned so much from him but I have to be intentional and stop, simply stop and breathe and listen to him. I need to focus on my 16 year old son as well but he’s been so busy with choir and his sweet girlfriend that I have to give him space as well. This next week I’m bringing out the Christmas music more, writing out Scripture and doing old fashioned Christmas card for snail mail. ??????
I’ve been following along with the First 5 and it really is soothing to begin each day in His word. I also started a blog which is meditative and helpful.
I like the nativity idea, what a sweet reminder! Thanks
I like the idea of having a nativity scene by my bed so it’s the last thing I see at night & the first thing I see in the morning.
I like the nativity idea as well but also the notecard with the reminder God is with me, to keep me grounded.
I play Christmas music all the time, but will now intentionally make it worship music.
One of my favorite Christian stations has been playing Christmas music everyday since the beginning of Dec. We have a secular station that does the same thing but I prefer my other station because the songs are much more focused on the true gift of Christmas. For me these songs help keep me focused on Christ rather than all the hustle & bustle that goes on at this time of year.
We listen to Christmas music, light our Advent candles at dinner and we have 2 nativity scenes. I do let my girls play with the one set as it teaches them the meaning of Christmas.
Reminder to live in the moment and enjoy the little thjngs. Without realizing it, those little things become so important to our children and become traditions. Whether it is dissussing each person’s role in Jesus’s birth as we put up the nativity scene, delivering baked goods to neighbors, or simply singing Christmas songs together in the cat as we run our errands.
I love the idea of wrapping up the list of expectations and preparations with a prayer. All too often, I am consumed by the details of how i expect everyone to react to,one another as well as act in general. For every thought, I have the scenario already played out in my head how I think it should go and how to curb how I think it will go. A sense of peace to put all that down and release it to the Lord should be my plan. Thank you for your post!
Journaling is a great way to remember the good and bad and see what God has done through that over the years. I don’t do it as often as I should but maybe a new journal will help.
I love the idea and will put a Nativity scene by my bed. Thank you!
Love this idea as I have re-committed to journaling with God. This is perfect- I find I hear His voice best when I journal!
I am slowing down in my scripture reading. I am intentionally limiting the amount that I read so that I have time to really reflect on it.
I like the idea of reading the Christmas story from Luke. I want to do that at the beginning of Christmas Day!
I love reading the Christmas story in Luke on Christmas morning before opening any presents. We also go to Christmas Eve service at our church.
Something we started last year has continued this year. We have a chalk board that we write a verse on each week such as a verse from the Christmas story, one about joy or peace. I personally listen to Christmas music starting the end of November until Christmas. Holidays can be tough around our home with all the love ones that have gone so we try to remember them during the season as well.
I helped a Kenyan seminarian fund his ordination celebrations
I am and will continue to listen to worship songs. I also like the idea of writing God is with me on an index card
I am listening to Christmas Hymns this Christmas season. I am also singing along. I find that it is a time of worship as I sing about Jesus coming to earth and saving the world!!
I have been missing the gift God gave me this year. I have felt lost and alone. As I read this I realized what had been missing. Thank you.
Our family is choosing to “adopt” children from our school district and bless them with some gifts for Christmas because I now realize that my abundance this year isn’t because of me, it’s God really looking after me.
I had unrealistic expectations for this Christmas. I had been more consumed with activities, and tried to decorate perfectly, but nothing satisfied my spirit. I want to focus on the joy that comes when I give Jesus my attention. I like the idea of writing down these distractions that cause disappointment, wrapping this list to remind me that all is covered by His presence. Singing in my heart brings me closer to God and the great carols echo praise for His most precious gift, Jesus.
As a long term caregiver 24/7 for my 91 yr old Mom who is suffering from vascular dementia, I have found myself having more difficulty focusing on Christmas this year. These 2 suggestions have reached out to me…
*Write on an index card “God is with me” and carry it with me all throughout December. When I feel stressed, thank Jesus out loud for being “with me.
*Plan time every day to be with Jesus: to sit still in His presence, soak in the perspective of His Word, and bask in His peace.
Thank you for these suggestions…things we know but forget.
We have created a paper chain with people’s names on each link and as we count down to Christmas we spend time praying for someone. And we do an advent devotion that has daily readings.
I do reflect on the nativity set each day it is on my kitchen bar and I have our bible turned to the greatest story ever told in Luke 2,, I listen to worship songs each day and on days that I don’t I have found that my day doesn’t go as good because I’m out of the will of God just a little , I have my First5 app that helps me dig deeper into Gods word each morning before my day gets started
I need to get some time alone, away from the busyness, and just pray and listen to His voice.
I am going to wrap up my unreal expectations and give them to God… what a FANTASTIC idea! Thank you for sharing that. It’s tough to not be consumed with what it’s “supposed” to look like and forget that it’s all about HIM. :)
I have been getting up 30 minutes early for extra quiet time to relish in God’s presence in the still and dark living room, lit only by the lights of the Christmas tree.
I love to watch The Nativity Story movie. It’s one of my favorites around the holidays, and reminds now miraculous Jesus birth was. IT seems to help shift my focus from all my busyness.
I really like the idea of a nativity by my bed. Would be a great reminder when I first get up in the morning and start thinking of all I still have to do as well as when go to bed at night.
I love the paper chain idea!! I love listening to Christmas music and have my nativity under my tree so i look at as i look at my tree. I really treasure each moment i can spend making memories that will live on forever!!
Listening to worshipful Christmas music during my day and finding daily time to bask in His presence, and remembering that He is WITH me. So I guess its a mix of 3 things. :)
I have a daily reminder on my phone that helps me stay focused on God for all my needs. My reminder simply tells me God is with me and God is in control of all problems today. thank you for this post today. May God continue to bless your sweet sheart, as you share His love with others.
My father always read the CHRISTmas story found in Luke on CHRISTmas eve when I was growing up. I have continued this special tradition in my home. I also have my son and I (single mom ) take communion together here at home. These daily contest have been wonderful. I enjoy all the responses and am excited to have learned some neat things to implement into our family. Thank you so much…even if I do not win prizes I am receiving daily nuggets …a journal would be awesome though ;) I am starting a writing career this next year :) God’s Blessings ?
Reading Ann Voskamp’s The Greatest Gift and having a Jesse tree in our upstairs hallway has made me focus more on the true meaning of Christmas and Immanuel, God with us, with me.
I have Christmas worship music on throughout the day to focus my heart and my mind on Jesus.
I love your idea to make a list of our joy stealers and wrap it as a gift to God. That is a powerful statement to me. I have started to pare down my Christmas to be joyful. We no longer do the big Christmas Day dinner with everyone at my house and stress over anything. My kids are now teenagers so we go to church t listen to the Christmas story and then to the I80 truck stop for lunch and then the movies. There are smiles all around and no stress in sight!
Christmas music comes in before December first for our family, and the nativity has been up every year but time spent in my Bible and seeking what God wants for me in a quiet place is very hard. I think I may get to know my closet well. I have had the holiday disappointment a few times over my life. Spending quiet time with God, is my desire.
I recently went to a Christmas tea. The speaker spoke about simple gifts: a word of encouragement, giving the gospel message and committing to pray for someone. My sister received my first “prayer” gift from me. She was overwhelmed by this as I committed to pray for her every day over the next year. I am excited to see God’s presence in my sister’s life not just at Christmas but all year!
While it is not a Christmas Song, each and every morning while driving to work I listen to Third Day’s song ‘In Jesus Name’ on their Lead Us Back Album. It puts everything into perspective of how ‘name above all names… everyone is saved….we find our love in Jesus’ name.’
I love to listen to traditional Christian Christmas music. I also try to keep our Christmas simple so the real meaning does not get lost in all the “stuff”.
We do a spiritual gift to each member of the family. This year, we all got new Bibles. We have a magnetic nativity scene on our refrigerator for our daughters to play with. Our two year old is constantly asking who the people are. Now she can point out Baby Jesus. ? That is what we do to keep Christ in our Christmas!
We have an advent book we sit down with every night as a family to focus is all toward Christ. I am also personally working through advent devotions every morning to remind me of the true meaning of Christmas.
Reading Luke chapter 2 as a family.
I plan on lighting our Christmas candle every day when the kids come home from school. It makes our home warm and inviting. I will light it again when my husband comes home. I checked out the children’s Christmas books you mentioned in your Honespun Memories from the Heart book. Some of the titles are ones I hadn’t heard of and I’m so glad that the Lord guided me yo your site and your books.
I will continue to listen to worship music, but will be putting the Nativity scene by my bed and writing out the “God is with me” card.
I have been using the First 5 app this year, and it has helped me to slow down. I can concentrate on the true reason for the season and not the materialism.
I need to sit still in the presence of God. I love “to do” lists too much. Instead, taking quiet time to ponder and reflect on the gift of love given to us in Christ is what I need.
I have a number of traditions I go by every year which includes ringing the bell for the Salvation Army, watching Christmas movies, listening to Christmas music, going to Christmas Eve worship service, drive around town looking at Christmas lights, spending quality time with family, and always remembering the reason for the season…JESUS CHRIST!
I love nativities. I have 3 that I put out every year. I even have the Little People’s set, just so it can be played with. But I am going to put the index card in my pocket, and maybe a few other places in my life.
I love the idea of putting a nativity at my bedside! I never thought of that before and I feel it will help me focus more on Jesus and will add nicely to my quiet time. Such peace! Thank you! Nancy- Massachusetts
I will start each day with a little Bible reading and prayer before I face the world.
Listen to worship music. And I love the idea of writing down expectations and praying over them and giving them to the Lord.
Christmas music, nativities, I love the spirit of Christmas. In everything remembering that Jesus is the reason and peace is the most important thing for a lot of us right now.
Plan time every day to be with Jesus: to sit still in His presence, soak in the perspective of His Word, and bask in His peace as you work, drive, wrap gifts, cook, entertain, etc.
I am reading a book called “God With Us: Rediscovering the Meaning of Christmas,” which is an intentional reminder to me every day of what we celebrate at this time of year.
I love listening to Christmas music. This year my 4-year-old daughter has been learning more songs including Oh What A Special Night that my mom shared with us on Facebook. We have a nativity in almost every room and for our daughters first Christmas my parents gave her the Little People nativity. She and her brother enjoy playing with the scene as we discuss what Christmas really is about.
Each evening of Advent, my family reads a devotional to prepare our hearts for the coming of Christ. We then light our the candle(s) of our Advent wreath and sing “O Come, O Come Emmanuel”. That is followed by a period of silent prayer in the candlelight.
I already have a daily quiet time first thing in the morning (well, almost first thing – making coffee come prior), but during this season I will be ending my day with with a quiet time as well.
We are getting ready to move and my husband has downloaded Christmas music so we listen each day. Most morning, the first thing I do is enjoy a cup of coffee and quiet time reading a devo, the Psalms, and spending time in prayer.
One way I have been intentionally unwrapping God’s gift is by reading a Lutheran Hour devotional every day. I’ve been relating well to this year’s devotional.
I’m purposely not getting wrapped up in all the “extras”…reading a simple devotion and doing simple things with my girls. Trying to keep the focus on the simple message of Christmas.
I’m going to keep my morning meeting with Jesus through the holidays. If I have to get up a little early due to schedules, it is worth it to start my day with Jesus!!
Being present in worship. Not simply a potato in the pew, but really celebrating the gift of Christ
I love the nativity by the bed idea. Perfect reminder first thing each morning!!!
Every morning I turn the lights on on the Christmas tree and pause for a moment to reflect before sitting in His Word to start the day. Just the simple act of starting my day with Jesus can make all the difference in keeping my thoughts on Him throughout the day :)
Being more intentional with preparations, Bible reading, coversations….remembering the reason for the season.
Time each morning spent in reflection and study, including a special study for advent.
Hymns and Christmas songs
I love all these ideas. I will be buying a Nativity set to place under my tree. And I think a new journal to list my REALISTIC expectations and priorities for this season. Thank you for sharing these!
Christmas worship music. And doing advent with our children.
Every morning, I intentionally unwrap His presence by carving out time to be with Him. I read His Word, pray then meditate on what He is telling me.
Spending lots of time in prayer is always helpful for us.
I enjoy Christmas music
The index card with “God be with me” would be the one I would choose. I go through the days with stress and just things going on that I forget to go to remember that God is with me. I struggle daily and this reminder would be great for me. Thank you for the idea.
I have an Advent wreath. I light the candles every morning with my devotions time & every evening as we eat dinner. It reminds me to be still & praise God for all that He has done.
I will place a nativity on my nightstand to remind me I am waiting for Christ.
I will intentionally approach each day as a gift from my father in heaven and show others forgiveness and grace as He has shown me through the gift of his Son.
Wow this is great! I love the idea of wrapping my expectations and those things that could rob me of joy and praying for God’s perspective. It’s a great visual of literally giving those things to God because I can’t bear the weight of the many expectations myself. Great post!
We usually are traveling to our parents but this year we are staying home. Since we typically don’t get a chance to go we are going to Christmas Eve candle light service. I’m really looking forward to it!
Listening to Christmas music helps me.
I’m reading Ann voskamps advent devotional and making a Jesse tree with her printable ornaments. It has helped me keep my focus on Jesus this season.
I usually try to do a 31 day advent devotional. Try is the word.
We have a nativity under the Christmas tree as a reminder what this Christmas is all about, but I am going to use a note card this yearalso. What A great idea
I have a nativity in my living room, and I listen to Christmas music all day thru my computer at work.
I will be intentional to remember God is with me during this season (and every season) by reflecting on my nativity scene (on my mantle) while I read a devotion each morning. There is so much more that matters during the holiday season than what we all get wrapped up in. I want to be more intentional for God, myself and my daughter.
I love Christmas Hymns! I could listen to them all day. They help keep me on track of what Christmas is really all about!
I want to sit quietly in his presence. Not only do I have the rush that the holiday puts you in but this is the busiest month of the year for work. Softly quietly will help my heart to be not sl much in a hurry.
Giving my FULL attention to the lead of the spirit, through word and worship. This is how I will strive to be this holiday season. We are so blessed already – giving to others can be such a joy and healing to our hearts!
ONE way that I will intentionally unwrap the gift of God’s presence this Christmas is by intentionally taking the time to spend thinking and praying about my blessings.
I really like placing a nativity scene by my bedside so I can go to sleep and wake up with it. I just want to be still and remember the importance of the reason for the season and spending time just in quiet stillness and knowing everything doesn’t have to be perfect. Jesus was born in a manger in a barn not in the “perfect” setting and if that is good enough for Jesus than what I have is enough and just perfect.
We love to listen to Christmas music. That’s all we hear at home and in the car. Constant reminder that “God is with us”.
I have a special nativity scene next to my favorite chair which brings a sense of peace and God’s presence after a long day.
I love the idea of spending a moment every day with Jesus! I do have quiet time every morning, but I would love to add one in the evening to reflect on the days blessings!
We attend midnight mass together and spend time with the huge nativity scene amazed at the precious gift God gave us.
Praying, reading the Bible, having devotions, participating in church at each opportunity I have with my family and listening to only Christmas music for the month leading up to Christmas, help me to focus on Jesus and the reason we celebrate. I, too, long to create “perfect” Christmas memories for my daughters, but remembering why we have Christmas really takes the pressure off and reminds me that because of Jesus, I do not have to be perfect. Having Jesus up front and center in our lives throughout the year, and at Christmas is all we need. So very thankful for God’s indescribable gift. Merry Christmas and God Bless!
On the first advent Sunday I attend various Christmas concerts throughout the season glorifying God with music.
I’m doing a daily devotional right now with our 3 boys that focuses on the birth of Jesus and how we give to others because God gave us his one and only Son. They are loving it so far and it’s helping us all to remember what our true gift is at Christmas.
I want to intentionally spend more quiet time alone with God…more time to listen, ponder, worship, and pray.
Worship music!! Oh how I love to worship :)
Listen to Christmas song is one of my favorite things to do to remind me of the first coming of Jesus and of the hope that He has given us! Christmas is my favorite time of the year!
I love to listen to worship music because it’s uplifting. During the Christmas season I listen to Christmas music that talks about Jesus and his love.
Christian music really helps me focus on the Lord.
Start my morning prayer and maybe a worship song or prayerful song.
Opps! Start my morning with prayer and maybe a worship song or prayerful song.
Shopping for our large family has really distracted me from the real focus of Christmas. For the last few years I have read Francine River’s short book about Mary. Every word takes me to the birth and life of Jesus and keeps me grounded.
Definitely Worship music that focuses on Jesus’s birth & God’s gift to mankind. Also participating in an Advent study (sad to say it’s the 1st time I’ve done one).
We are trying to keep things more quiet and simple this year. There is still a lot to do but we are enjoying a bit more margin which we hope makes more room in our hearts for the Savior.
I like the idea of a nativity your bedside! And, finding that quiet time with Immanuel is pivotal for me…
I LOVE listening to Christmas music, especially the worship songs about the birth of Jesus. Reading through the the book of Luke with my husband and two kiddos helps us all get focused on the true reason of this wonderful season!!
WHAT is ONE way you will intentionally unwrap the gift of God’s presence this Christmas??
I like the idea of the nativity beside my bed, maybe I can start that next year.
I think the one I will do is to write on the index card, that might be the simplest reminder in the midst of a chaotic day, not just at Christmas but throughout the year.
I also hope to be more intentional with making time to sit at Jesus’ feet and listen to him.
Listening to the Christian radio station is something I am already doing, I have it playing in my car (but I don’t use my car much) and also listen to it at night.
I want to be intentional about spending time in God’s Word and asking Him to use me to show His love.
Spending time with God, praising Him and thanking Him for many blessings.
We limited our gift giving frenzy to 4 gifts this year for each of our 3 boys:
A want
A need
A wear
And a read
We are focusing on spending more time as a family. Our church is promoting #onelessgift which means donate what you’d spend on one gift to a local charity so that you can be Jesus to others.
A daily devotional that is reminding me of the reason for the season!
I think it’s great this time of year to switch up the Christmas music with the worship music. Puts things in perspective for sure!
Listening to Christmas carols and participating in our church’s Christmas programs keeps me focused. I love the idea of the bedside nativity.
We start with a grateful game @Thanksgiving by the letter …
An idea I picked up somewhere & turned into a game ?…
Then we pick pollyanna’s (saved for Christmas day …
Christmas eve we pick numbers for the ‘white elephant in the room ..
I love the ideas listed above, I think I love the nativity by the bedside is my favorite and the one I’ll do for sure! <3
I like the idea of putting a nativity where it is the first thing I see in the morning!
I plan to slow down and make sure I keep up with my devotions.
To keep my focus each day I need to spend time with Jesus, early in the morning, before my husband wakes up. That peaceful time, doing my #First5 app and other Bible readings keep me focused on what’s the most important thing in my life-Jesus.
This year, I am planning the Scripture and Song service we will do for Christmas-with input from others-and it’s been a blessing to search out Scriptures and songs to sing! :)
I want to start Christmas Eve and day with an extra time of reflection to remind myself of a baby born in a manger, God’s gift of love.
This Christmas I want to remember that God is with me always, through every minute of the day. So often I have my prayer time with God then rush out the door to work and get so busy doing so many different things I do not think about him until it is time to go to sleep and I reflect on my day. I want to be in constant prayer and feel his presence through every moment of the day.
We volunteer at local Christmas events around our community. Helping others and giving of ourselves is our way of embracing the true meaning of Christmas.
I have a necklace that I wear only during this season. It was gift from a sister at church and is the stable with a star above it. Wearing that is a reminder to me of what I am really celebrating.
Every year it seems to be a small whisper through a certain song or a book that draws my heart right back to where it should be. This year it’s the Adore album by Chris Tomlin. I put it on and take a deep breath.
I so loved reading your words tonight. Merry Christmas!
Listening to worship music makes me feel so inspired to live for Christ no matter my circumstances. I love this seasons worship music focus but i am thankful for talented and passionate artists who sing of His glory and birth all year round!
Listen to Christmas worship music. Keeps me focused on Jesus is the Reason for the Season.
Christmas music, the Word of God, giving to others, all contribute to helping me focus on the Christ of Christmas. When the to do list becomes stressful I reflect on the first Christmas which was stressful in it’s own way. Yet Christ was born bringing true Peace that regardless of our circumstances is available to us right now even in the middle of our chaos.
I am and will continue listening to Christian radio and begin to truly listen to the words, since so many of the song lyrics are scripture and promises of God.
I love the idea of placing a nativity scene by my bed! Perfect way to start and end each day- reflecting on the gift of Jesus Christ
I have been simplifying things this year to allow myself more time to abide. Spending time each day focusing on my Heavenly Father is helping me kept the right perspective.
Being more intentional in spending alone time with God just to be still and listen and to pray. It’s been a struggle to do.
Make a list of expectations and preparations that could rob you of joy and consume your focus this Christmas. Place the list in a gift box and wrap it in God’s presence with a prayer – asking Him to give you His perspective and peace for everything you listed
I like the card idea… Reminders can be anywhere though… Christmas lights… Christmas songs… Tastes of Christmas … Christmas smells. Hopefully, after Christmas is over, the habit of noticing the beauty in our world … The gifts from God… Will remind us of His presence every day
I love the suggestion of making a list of expectations and preparations that could rob you of joy and consume your focus this Christmas. I am already struggling with a long list of things to do, not enough time, and joy of the season slowly slipping away. I think this is a great idea! It doesn’t have to be perfect…we just need to focus on Jesus.
I love the Christmas music!! It really makes me focus on the “reason for the season.” I listen whenever possible!
I always listen to our Christian radio station, which is so uplifting. I also silk be spending more quiet time with the Lord.
Singing in our church’s Cantata.
Listening to worship music for sure!
I love the idea of putting a nativity in my bedroom. Each of my kids have one in their rooms but I never thought to have one in my room. What a great reminder to start the day!
Listening to Christmas music.
Christmas music and reading the Christmas story!
I will be more intentional about setting a part of my day to bask in the joy of Jesus.
This is great. There’s so many Christmases that go by feeling empty. They don’t seem as magical as when we are kids. I love remembering God with us and that us the best gift. We have been remembering this by taking time out every night and doing advent. It has been a great reminder what Christmas is all about.
I need to start my day with God’s Word & fill my day with praise music. These keep me focused so the business of life doesn’t sweep me away.
I am going to “post-it” Emanuel on my computer at work to remind me that God is with me during this season.
I love the image of “unwrapping” our gift of His Presence.
I love music. Listening to Christmas hymns always put my heart and head in the right place. I am also adding to my calendar for 8 am each day to say a prayer of thanks. I have found that when friends request that I pray for them, it works best for me if I put it on my calendar. The phone dings and I stop what I am doing and pray for a few minutes.
My family gathers every nite before bed starting Dec 1 thru Dec 24 and read Christmas books. My daughter is now 15 and she still wants to do it no matter what. It’s a good way to end the day with Jesus.
Every year before we unwrap presents my sister in law and i will read the first part of Luke and the first part of Matthew that talk about Jesus’s birth. It reminds us and my kiddos that its about more than presents and also helps me connect with Jesus again.
Christmas music has always brought joy to my heart and as a family we read the Christmas story on Christmas Eve before we go to bed. This year I must place my expectations at the feet of Jesus and keep my eyes on Him not my circumstances.
I love listening to Christmas music and I love nativities. We have several we set up.
We’re reading a new Advent book this year, Ishtar’s Odyssey. It is exciting and we love it and pausing to think about all the details in the Christmas story that are left untold.
Listening to xmas music!
I love the idea of an index card with “God is with me” written on it! I am doing that today! Thank you :)
Christmas music and advent readings.
When I was younger and my children were small I always felt rushed because of the expectations I set for myself to make it the best Christmas. Now that I’m older and the children are adults, I keep it minimal, if it gets done great but if it doesn’t then that’s okay.
Last month, on SM, I started a bible challenge. Each day I, & some friends, would sit down and dig deep into the word. December is no different. We’ve plunged deep into it and spend time doing so daily!
I LOVE the idea of a manger scene on the bedroom! Focusing morning and night I the true reason for this blessed season will help my stress level immensely, before the day’s worries threaten to overwhelm.
I currently have been participating in an online Bible study that has kept my heart focused on God and Jesus. I’m also enjoying a daily Advent reading. I do love your idea of placing a nativity at my bedside so I can reflect on the gift of Christ each night before falling asleep and each morning as I wake up. I have a small child’s size nativity that belongs to one my daughter’s. She isn’t using it in her room this year (I think it will get “lost” on her messy nightstand!) so I think I’ll use it in my room. Perhaps my daughter will make room for it and I will tell her your suggestion. Thanks for the idea! God bless you all and Merry Christmas!
Ironically, sitting still in God’s presence during the Christmas season is hard to do. Our schedules are full and the pull to produce is stronger than any other time of year. I like that you take time to reflect and listen to God. I’m being more intentional about that this year. We are also gathering the kids (amidst sports, finals and work) for nightly family devotions. Not able to do it every night, but as much as possible.
I have been reading three advent studies and listening to music.
I moved a nativity that is an advent candle holder to my bedroom mantle.
Thank you for the great ideas.
Our church youth group provided each family with a devotional leading up to Christmas. We are doing that each night as a family.
I am blessed to have my daily morning and evening time with Jesus as a Spiritual habit I never miss, no matter what is happening around me or to me or who is visiting but I have never done anything special for Advent. This year I am spending each day writing out Scripture that brings the amazing story of Jesus birth and the prophesy of His arrival alive to me in a way like never before and spending that time hand writing His word has given me a surge of deep, intimate connection.
We have been using the Advent Calendar to learn more about the true meaning of Christmas.
I make sure I take the time to pray and read the Bible. I take extra time if I feel myself getting “tangled up in the Christmas lights”. Listening to the Christmas songs which speak of Christ and His birth help, too….I make sure to sing them as the praise songs they are instead of just another catchy jingle.
I like the idea of carrying the index card with me to remember!
We help support families in need with the help of our church family through bake sales and fundraisers :)
Christmas has always been my favorite time of the year. For the past 8 years I have been miserable every year. 3 years ago I rededicated my life to God, and the first year I was as so focused on Christ’s birth nothing mattered. The past two years I have to go back to Jesus’ birth, and the young Mary’s feelings. That’s what allows Gods presence to come close.
I plan time to spend with God everyday. I love the index card idea. We have our Nativity set out on a shelf that you have to walk by so you always see it.
I will be keeping things simple and reflecting on Jesus! He is the reason for the Season! :-)
I think making a list of what my expectations are might help with avoiding problems. I also want to spend more time reading and connecting with the real reason for this holiday.
I will say Jesus’s name when I wake up in the morning to remind me of why I’m here and to give me peace.
Wow! I absolutely love all of these. I think I’m actually going to try them all. I already do some of them and I really try to do as much as possible (spiritually) during December to fully prepare my heart for the coming of our Savior! Stress, chaos, busy schedules, to do list and so much more often creeps in trying to take my focus! I have to be extra intentional during Decemeber to make sure I am keeping my heart and mind focused on above and why we celebrate Christmas!
Reading a daily Christmas devotional during the month of December helps me to keep my focus on Christ.
I love to listen to and sing Christmas worship songs.
I will for sure make a card to carry with me to remind me God with us and will share the same with my friends.
We keep a gift under the tree for Jesus. On Christmas morning the first thing we do is give our gift to Jesus (since it IS His birthday). We write our gift on a little piece of paper and put it In the gift box under the tree. We also have a birthday party for Jesus after dinner complete with birthday cake!
We have a nativity in our living room which we talk about a lot with the kids. We also have a little people nativity and we teach the kids to tell the Christmas story with those kid-friendly pieces. We also listen to a lot of Christian Christmas music and sing all the time!
I love listening to Christmas worship music and have been for quite some time this year. We also have Advent devotions as a family. This year we are doing Ann Voskamp’s family devotional. So meaningful!
I plan to spend more time with Jesus this holiday season, and also listen to nothing but worship music in my truck! :)
I love the idea of printing “God is with me” to carry with me all day, and also the Nativity by the bedside idea. We do Advent devotions currently which makes the season so much more special and focused.
I love the idea of putting a nativity scene beside my bed! I will definitely do that!
I start by watching Christmas movies. Even though some of them may not have a religious story to them I can see the love in each one of them and it reminds me that Christmas time is the time that we can see God’s love as he gave us his son to remind us everyday that he loves us.
A nativity set that my mom gave me a long time ago helps set the tone for Christmas one it is out…
I wish I could say the nativity scenes were enough but some times I walk by then without noticing or truly thinking about the meaning of Christmas. I keep Scripture close by and this year in particular remind myself that when my children forsake the Lord will take me up…Immanuel God with ME. He loves and accepts me. He will never leave me nor forsake me. Nor will He abuse or use me. I will also play Christmas carols and other hymns. Doing Christmas activities with the grandchildren who live with us helps keep me entered as well.
Listening to Christmas songs to and from work. Nothing better to set my mind on Jesus!
A local hardware store closes at noon and has a “Christmas Eve Service at the Hardware Store.” People from all over the community come to the service followed by homemade Christmas cookies, coffee & hot cocoa. It is a wonderful time. As the owner says, Jesus was born in a manager so we have church once a year in the hardware store.
I have my “joy jar” – or my blessings jar. No matter what is happening in my life, I write something on a small piece of paper & put it in my jar that I am thankful for, that I have been blessed with or something good in my life. At the end of the year, I put them in a little ziplock & then when the new year begins, I start filling the jar again. It is good to look back at one of the zip-bags & read some of the blessings from the past. It is amazing to see how your blessings & joys add up.
We love Christmas music!! We listen to it on the way to school each day.. I also love our nativity set.. It is a great reminder every time I see it!
Lots of Peaceful Holiday music on Pandora. And morning devotional time with Ann Voskamp. And tons of reminders to myself to stay focused on what is most important and to let the rest go.
We play lots and lots of Christmas music over the holiday season which helps me to remember where my focus should be. Also, my morning prayer time includes specifically asking that Jesus be the center of all that I do and that I don’t let him get pushed aside with other demands.
I love idea of placing a nativity at my bedside. Thank you for that. I really like to listen to Christmas music.
One way I unwrap the gift of God’s presence is soaking in His Word in the early morning hours while the house is still and I can think! I have Scripture on the walls in each and every room so that my heart is reminded of His great love as I move from room to room! xoxo
By staying in His Word. Teaching my daughters what Christmas is really about.
Spending time with Jesus and listening to Christmas Cd’s helps me feel God’s presence.
I love these ideas! Along with my morning devo, I plan on reading over the birth of Christ and journal my thoughts now through Christmas! Thanks!
Advent devotional, as well as the first time writing the 31 days of scripture in December.
Posted in reply to email:
Christmas presents – Jesus’ presence. I’m using these entries to pause and reflect on Christmas through a new lens. Today the ‘Papa Bear’ of our adopted daughter passed away after a major stroke. He life has touched many lives, especially that of Inez and our granddaughter Taylor. Almost at the same time a new baby was born, Sebastian to a school family. He was rushed to Children’s hospital, unable to breathe on his own. Prayers for his healing and little life. Already he has touched lives in the hours that he has been on this earth. Presence —- the touching of lives, engaging in life, life itself. God with us. Each day I find a ‘picture’ of God’s presence in my life and that of my family and friends. This is my PAUSE for PRESENCE this advent season.
Thank you for this present of reflection,
Vicki Butler
I took time to sit and reflect with tea in hand in front of my Christmas tree. I’ve also started reading Fervent and reflecting on my life each morning so as not to miss the most important thing this Christmas: my relationship with God.
This message hit home with me in a big way! I am very guilty of striving to create the perfect Christmas every year only to have my hopes dashed when my expectations and desires fall short of being achieved.
I never realized this was happening until this year when I read a similar devotion about all week ago. I have no doubt this is God speaking to me.
To keep my focus on Jesus this season, I am consciously thinking on my desperate need for the Christ Child each time something doesn’t work out just the way I intended or chaos is swirling around me. I’m so thankful He came and meets me in my mess.
We will attend our beautiful Christmas eve service at church
I get involved in Christian celebrations to keep my focus on HIM!
I love to listen to worship songs to remind me of his love!
We listen to Christian Christmas music! We also set up a number of nativities throughout our house. A few of them are “child-proof” so my kids take turns acting out the Christmas story with the characters just about every night.
I need to let go of perfect expectations and realize that being with Jesus is the only true thing that matters.
The kids and I are journaling our way through Advent. I bought a special book for the kids, and I’m using my favorite Bible. Each morning we break out our books and art supplies and get to work. It’s a different way to remember what the point of all the fuss really is.
I love the idea of wiring “God is with us” on an index card!!! That is the reason!!
I live alone, so 1st thing every morning I play a mix of Christmas & worship songs to focus on Jesus while I wash my face, etc to get ready for my devotional time.