Embracing Imperfect

Imperfect can still make perfectly wonderful memories.

This is a true statement. But at the holidays, we women run at break-neck speed chasing illusive perfect.

I have learned not to anymore. You see, I have perfectly wonderful memories from imperfect events and near disasters.

Like the time the tree fell over and shattered a half-dozen glass bulbs. We had to secure it to the wall with fishing line. (We still laugh at the pictures now as we try to see if we can spy the line!)

Or the time I decided to whip up my famous fruitcakes rather late at night, forgetting they bake at 250 degrees for TWO AND A HALF HOURS! (I had to sleep on the sofa and set an alarm for the middle of the night to get them out when they were done!)

My friend Kelli has taken my 5-day LET. IT. GO. Christmas Challenge. (detail below). She decided NOT to be a control freak about the tree this year. Well? Here is the result:

Some of you see a Christmas tree.

Us control freaks and perfectionists?


But Kelli has learned to see the joy on her kids’ faces as more important than perfect.

How about you? Will you embrace imperfect this year?

To see Kelli’s post, or to visit any of the other gals on my blog tour, click on the links below. You might win my new book of even one of two Kindle Fires!

Kelli Wommack

Amy Carroll

Organizing Home Life

Jennifer Sikora

Homegrown Learners

Jenni Mullinix


Don’t forget–if you sign up for my free 5-day resource: From Chaos to Calm: The LET. IT. GO. Christmas Challenge.

You might just win a Kindle Fire for participating!

This five-day challenge will allow Christmas to be less hectic and full of unrealistic expectations this year as you learn to control what you should and trust God with what you can’t. The result? Less stressing and more blessing!

This resource will come automatically to your inbox for five days beginning the day you sign up. That way you can pick a time that works best in your schedule.

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  • I think her tree is beautiful. My 3 year old grandson helped me with one of my trees this year and I have a lot of ornaments clumped on one branch at the bottom but it makes me smile every time I look at it.

  • I got tired of being depressed on Christmas morning when things weren’t perfect so I quit expecting it. I embraced the imperfections of our “Charlie Brown” tree. Our one hard and fast holiday tradition used to be putting the tree up as a family on our daughter’s birthday, December 13th. We still do it then, just not as a family anymore. Both our children are out of the home now and living on their own. Makes putting the tree up a bit more difficult now, but we still put on the baby shoes and the old pacifier and ornaments we’ve had since our first Christmas as husband and wife. And the ornaments they both made as children. And when I make Christmas gifts, I purposely do something not perfect. I mean, I’m not perfect and neither is the recipient of the gift. So it kinda fits.