Oh friends, my head is about to explode!
For two reasons, really. One, because there are so many goodies here for you today including two free e-books and a chance at a free night’s stay at a fantastic Georgia Bed & Breakfast! and our last swap and share day giving some hospitality on the road ideas and……
Because I am sick.
The sore throat, pounding sinus-headache, coughin’, creepin’ crud SICK!
But when I think of what day it is and what Jesus did for me by suffering on the cross? Well, a little creepin’ crud ain’t NOTHIN’!
Today’s guest is giving us ways to lay down a little of our lives in order to make our husband’s return home each day relaxing.
My new fabulously talented friend Darlene Schacht is here!
Darlene is an ordinary mom, living an extraordinary life, because of who she is through Jesus Christ.
As help-meet to her husband Michael, she guides and nurtures their four children, leading them toward a deeper walk of faith.
She is a New York Times best-selling author through the book she co-authored with actress Candace Cameron Bure titled, Reshaping it All: Motivation for Physical and Spiritual Fitness.
You can find her blogging at Time-Warp Wife where she empowers wives to joyfully serve and on twitter.
My Desire for Curb Appeal
Dictionary.com defines hospitality this way: The friendly reception and treatment of guests or strangers.
It’s a wonderful thing to treat our guests with a friendly reception. I like it and I’m sure that you appreciate the extra effort too. It’s unfortunate however that many families don’t take the time to treat each other with the same level of respect.
When my husband walks through the door after a hard day at work, I like to offer him what I refer to as “curb appeal.” Curb appeal offers him a feeling of peace, respect and acceptance from the moment he steps into our home.
~ Take a look in the mirror an hour before your husband comes home to ensure that you are presentable. An hour allows ample time to hop into the shower if need be.
~ Go light on the perfume, but use great smelling soaps, shampoo, and antiperspirant so he’ll want to snuggle up for the evening.
~ If you wear makeup, put a little on before he walks in. Your goal is to look happy and radiant–not done up.
~ Dress in feminine clothing. Men are attracted to women, not fashion, so do your best to wear styles, fabrics and colors that remind him you’re a woman and not another one of the guys. Dress as well for him as you would for new friends.
~ Have all chores done before he walks in the door, and try to have things like the dishwasher and vacuum turned off.
~ Put aside your problems and be cheerful when he walks in the door.
~ Make your bed every morning so he has a comfortable place to rest at night or upon returning from work.
~ Ensure that the television and stereos are turned off so that the house is peaceful.
~ If the kids are excited about something, encourage them to wait about 15 minutes before they share their news.
~ Prepare dinner before he arrives. There’s nothing quite like the smell of home cooking when you walk in the door—especially when you’re cooking the food he likes.
~ Have the pots and pans washed ahead of time so that the kitchen is every bit as presentable as the meal.
~ If you have problems to deal with, wait until after dinner to spring it on him. Husbands are happier when their tummies are full.
~ Greet him at the door with open arms, a kiss, and a warm embrace.
~ Make an effort to look at him when he is speaking so that he has your full attention.
~ Close the computer if you’re on it, and if you’re chatting on the phone try to end the conversation and call her back later.
~ Have the children tidy up the front entrance when they arrive from school. Backpacks, jackets and gym bags make for an untidy greeting.
~ Do your best to have the house clean and organized at all times. He is working hard outside the home and needs home to be his haven of rest.
~ Don’t be angry if he’s working late, instead show appreciation for long hours put in.
~ Have the kids wash their faces, and change their clothing if they are soiled from play before Daddy comes home.
~ Don’t nag him or try to reshape his bad habits. Work on your own and practice acceptance at all times.
~ It is imperative that you defend your husband to your children and that they respect him at all times. Never allow them to grumble or complain about him whether he’s present or not.
~ Don’t compare him to other women’s husbands or to your father when it comes to your definition of a man. Love and respect go a lot farther than criticism ever will.
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. ~ Proverbs 31:10″
You are loved by an almighty God,
Darlene
Ok gals—for the giveaways!
First, for a copy of Darlene’s free e-books; One on Esther, the beauty of courageous submission and one on Ruth, a woman of virtue, click here.
Then, one of you who leaves a hospitality on the road idea, either as a comment or as a link to your blog post on the topic, will win one free night’s stay at the Madison Oaks Inn & Gardens!!!
This stay, subject to room availability, is for the Hannah room, their nicest room and a $280 value! Thank you to Cheryl–the proprietor of the inn who read my book and contacted me with this generous offer!
This will be a great get-away for you and your hubby or a friend. (Sorry, no children under 13 and of course, this doesn’t include travel. You’ll need to get yourself to the inn which is about an hour from Atlanta.)
OK–please leave us a hospitality on the road idea: a clever way to reach out and love on someone that doesn’t involve your home but involves you going to them!
Is there a theme basket you could take a sports-lover, a bbq fanatic or ballerina?
Any way to bless a stranger? A faraway friend or relative by using the US mail?
What could you do for a new family in your church or neighborhood?
A coach, teacher or bus driver?
I can’t wait to see your ideas!
PLEASE NOTE: Make sure you end your comment or post by putting in quotes “B & B” So I know if you’d like to win the Bed & Breakfast giveaway. If you are chosen at random as the winner and can’t get away to the inn, I’ll give you a different prize and pick another winner for the Inn.
Great ideas. I did write a post for today but since I’m in OR I don’t think getting to Atlanta is in the cards. Bummer. My husband loves my perfume so I always make sure I have just a tad of it on for him.
When friends who live far away are going through a hard time or just to let them know I’m thinking of them, I send them cookies from Cheryl’s. – http://www.cheryls.com It’s not expense, but they always enjoy it! I would love to go to the Madison Oaks Inn & Garden – it looks beautiful on the web site & I’m not too far away! “B&B”
A theme basket I love to put together includes lotion, shower gel and a nice smelling perfume.
I have also been known to mail boxes of books to my mom, who is an avid reader, surprising her the day it arrives.
I would have to ask hubby about the B & B. But please put me down and if we can’t go I would love the surprise giveaway I am sure.
“B & B”
What a fun giveaway, and how generous the B&B owner must be! I’m several hours away, but we could get there.
I’ll try to link up my blog post when we get home from our excursion. I wrote about blessing others in secret as a family – from simple treats left in mailboxes to Blessing Bags made for the homeless. My post is available here: http://anestintherocks.blogspot.com/2012/04/working-in-secret.html
Thanks, Karen, for writing such a wonderful book and leading us through this study!
B&B
so sorry that you’re not feeling well today – praying that creeping crud leaves you quickly!
we live in Ohio – so not B&B, but enter me for something else!
it’s taken me 50 years, but I am finally beginning to CONSISTENTLY treat my husband the way that GOD asks me to; to give him space, give him lovingkindness, and not to complain about him to others. difficult, but God driven!
I love the ideas to welcome my husband home from work.
Some of the things we do for others when we travel is give a homemade gift basket of their favorites. If we are visiting my mom, her name is Hope and she collects Angels so we try to find a new one for her collection.
“B&B”
I’m sorry Darlene, but I guess I’m just not the perfect wife! I’d love to be able to greet my husband at the door the way you describe but with a farm and a full time job on the railway, it’s a little impossible. I leave for work about 3 in the morning and return about midnight. Perhaps he should be greeting me at the door! On my day off I try to keep the house clean and prepare meals but I wouldn’t mind a little “me” time, time to sew and/or quilt, the things I enjoy.
I am with you Chris. We live in a small county in SW GA. Population <3000. My husband farms. I teach school. I leave before he does every am. During the off season (winter months), he is often home before I am. During the planting, growning, harvesting seasons (April – November), he may be home any time between 6pm-10pm. He is in and out during the day, as we live on our farm. I feel like the most hospitable thing I do, is having breakfast made and ready when he gets up every am, having dinner cooked every evening, and not complaining about the mess he makes coming in and out all day, eating lunch, etc. Many afternoons, I enter the door (kitchen), stop by the laundry room to swap clothes from washer to dryer, start dinner, run dish water to rinse dishes left throughout the day, load dishwasher, and start dinner. I may not leave this area until after dinner is prepared, eaten, and cleaned up. I enjoyed the book, but was disheartened that most of the daily emails were from women who live their lives a lot differently than I. Most were stay at home moms. Not saying that that is any more or less challenging, just saying that it is a completely different scenario. I can say that it is easier now than ever because my sons are older (19 and 15). I look back and know that I only survived the early years by the grace of God. My oldest is severely dyslexic so at least 3 hours of homework, studying, etc. were added to my afternoon schedule. He has graduated now and farms with his Dad. Praise the LORD! Boy, did I ever lean on the Lord back then!!! And He ALWAYS held me up!! In the end, I do my best to keep the house orderly, my family happy, and my man well fed! B&B.
I am a stay at home mom….and that list just wasn’t reality. Cleaning up after 5 (and yes, I’m trying to get everyone to do their part but it doesn’t work well or there is too much disgruntlement included in it) of us in this house with all the “to do” things everyday. I am soooo far behind. This mom is ready to go on strike! And realize, I hardly ever watch tv. Most of my news is from the talk radio when I’m running an errand or getting kids here and there. I help out at school (for the kids), scouts (for the kids), a mom’s group (that helped me survive my early years including hubby’s 2 deployments), etc. etc. I FINALLY started trying to go to an excercise class at least 2ce a week to get in better health. I fall in bed most nights ready to collapse. This posting today, I kept waiting for the punch line that never came.
I have several family members in other states… My favorite way to show them hospitality is with a package… After a move, or when the kids are sick or when a spouse is traveling a lot- I send a little care package with snacks, movies, bubbles, sidewalk chalk, arts & crafts, etc… To show them love and to know I’m thinking of them and I care, despite the distance between us.
I’d love the B & B stay… My sister lives near Atlanta and I’m in Chicago…. What a great sisterly get-away!!
When my brother and sister-in-law had their first baby – they were 2 hours away. We live in Greenwood, SC and they are in Charlotte, NC. I had a 3 month old of my own when they had my precious baby niece. I packed my sweet baby up and went to them with crockpot and ingredients in had for a Taco Soup – we made a day visit (as to not get in their way) – it was long but oh so wonderful…..I left them with some amazing taco soup cooking in their crock pot and were able to give them a few meals out of it. I also, did her dishes and some laundry for her before I left. What sweet memories! B&B – I need a rest desperately…..:)
When I visit my friend who lives a little over an hour away, I always take her the fragrance of the month candle from Yankee Candles or one from Bath and Body Works because I know she loves them.
I would love to go to Madison because I’m about an hour away. I’ve gone with my husband to watch his tennis matches when his team plays theirs, and the town and the shops look so lovely. I would love to stay at the B&B and get the opportunity to explore them.
B&B,
Sherry
When someone we love has a loved one in the hospital for an extended stay, we put together a love basket with snacks, magazines, devotional, cards, puzzle book, etc. “B&B”
I have enjoyed so much reading your posts. Thanks! Sorry to hear you’re not feeling well, praying for a speedy recovery.
Mailing or taking in person items from the area that you know they like. Example: We use to live in the Philadelphia area and love a good Hoagie, and when we moved to another state, we received a package with fixings for a Hoagie. It was wonderful! I take “thank you” or some kind of “blank” cards and a small gift with me. I leave this in the room we stay for them to find later.
Great idea! Love the idea of them finding it later.
I went to the Facebook page clicked like and I don’t see a Freebies link at the top of the page. HELP!
Karen hope you start feeling better soon.
When we go to my parents’ house for the holidays all of my sisters and brothers bring all we will need for meals so my mom doesn’t spend all of her time in the kitchen.
This post has made me realize I don’t use the postal service enough. I need to mail more goodies to my friends and family.
I was reading in the book last night the ideas for being a tourist in your own town and inviting others to join you. My husband is a pastor and we practice hospitality a lot. But thank you for all the good ideas. I am enjoying the book and the daily posts have been great. I have taken coffee and muffins to friends. “B & B”
I like to put gift bags together for my children’s teachers – they pour into my childrens lives when they are away from me & I appreciate that so much !! “b&b”
Take hospitality to someone who is homebound long term or short term by making a ‘movie’ basket with an inspiring or funny movie (depending on who you are treating)…include microwave popcorn, soda and ‘movie’ candy (or if you are really industrious you could include homemade cookies or brownies). If you know the person needs company, plan on staying to watch the movie with them. It can even be an anonymous gift if you so desire. This can be a treat for young and old alike.
Hope you feel better real soon! Blessings to you…
Would love the B&B stay!
For a new mom I like to bring over some things that they can have in their freezer so for those days they just don’t have the energy to think of dinner they can have that to just pull out and heat up.
I cannot take credit for this, but I read one time where a young mother who was traveling with a small child and no husband took along several envelopes that had either $5s or $20s, I can’t remember. She handed one to each unsuspecting person who helped her on her trip. These kind souls opened doors, helped with luggage, or whatever else a mother traveling without help would need. When they opened the envelope they found the money and a sweet note thanking them. I always thought it would be a great idea to do this when traveling whether with gift cards or $5s and just hand them to people that look like they need a pick me up:)
sounds like the 1950′s housewife who does not work outside of the home
That’s exactly where I saw this list!! It was a home ec textbook.
I’ve enjoyed all of the posts, but this doesn’t seem possible for those of us who work outside of the home. Life gets busy and it also gets messy sometimes.
I am very much concerned with being a godly wife, and I DO stay home, but I personally think this is a little overboard for me, although Darlene’s husband must be very lucky to be married to such a perfect wife! lol
I agree with Crystal!
I try to visit a friend every week who is very sick and home bound. When I go, I take a basket filled with crafts that we can make together. The last time I visited, I didn’t bring a craft and could tell she was disappointed. We have made Christmas ornaments, t-shirt scarves, felt flowers and wire-beaded serving utensils. She loves beading and has even made items for a fundraiser I was involved in. We chat while we are crafting and it has been such a blessing for me to see her creative side come out. Any ideas of what I could do with her next?
I love this idea! What a blessing you are to your sick friend. Maybe you could make pearl crosses out of fishing line and beads. There’s a free pattern for these on Beadjewelrymaking.com…
Maybe your friend would enjoy making more of the t-shirt scarves for hospital patients where it’s usually so cold. Or maybe some bead hearts with verses about Jesus’ love. These could be made spread over several visits along with homemade cards or scripture verses and maybe once a month or so you could drop them off at a retirement home or hospital for nurses to deliver to their patients. It’d save you having to try to always come up with something different and it’d bless your friend to be able to minister to others. There’s nothing like doing things for others to take our mind off of our own situation. And it’s so fulfilling and healing to serve others with purpose.
There are alot of inexpensive kits at orientaltradecompany.com. They have a kit on sale right now where you can get the supplies to make 12 pink ribbon pony bead crafts for cancer awareness, including an inspirational card. They’re regularly $8 on sale now for just $1.59. God bless you as you continue to bless your friend.
love & blessings, tonya
Wonderful! Thank you for the ideas.
Moms of preschoolers always have so many demands upon their lives and most probably don’t get enough rest either, so I would like to organize a group of older ladies from my church to get together and prepare meals in the church (health department approved) kitchen and go “on the road” and deliver them to mothers of preschoolers in our community. Of course, we probably couldn’t reach a lot at one time, but we could come up with a list of maybe five to 10 mothers of preschoolers to start and perhaps do this several times a year, giving meals to different moms (and their families) each time. I think the fellowship of getting the older ladies together in the kitchen for this mission would be wonderful, and we could be a blessing to the mothers of preschoolers at the same time. I’m thinking that we could prepare casseroles, salads, possibly homemade rolls and a dessert for each of the young moms along with a pretty note card of encouragement for their roles and letting them know that Jesus loves them and we do too. I’m wondering if we should call the young moms the day before to make sure they will be home and also so they can anticipate the joy of not having to cook dinner the next day.
Praying that you will feel better soon, Karen. “B&B”
That is a wonderful idea! Being a young mom of a 3 year old, 18 month old and pregnant with baby #3, I would love it if someone did that for me. Calling ahead of time would be helpful, too!
I have no ideas but I just wanted yo express my gratitude for today’s post. My husband is military (currently deployed until August) and his hours are pretty wild. We also have 4 children 8 & under. I could give you a list of other excuses but ultimately I am so guilty of bring in gym cloylthing or some other state of chaos when he comes home. I will be putting these ideas into practice when he returns from this deployment and I am also going to do my best to be presentable while he is gone just invade he gets skype time. Thank you for your good and simple ideas that can have such a big impact.
Karen – sorry you are not feeling well today. Hope you feel better the rest of the weekend!
The topic for today is a hard one to do. My husband & I work at the same place and we drive together most of the time. Besides saving in gas the best part of us riding together is that we can share our day as we travel home and then when we are home that discussion ends! Then we can deal with just the misc items, dinner, homework, baths, etc…
Sharing on what to do away from the house – I like to take something that I made or a small gift to say thanks for opening your home to us. I liked the idea of leaving a notecard for them to find. I will have to try that one.
Thanks for all these ideas in this study! The B&B sounds great, and so have all the other gifts!
I struggle with today’s message to women. Although all the suggestions sound nice, I fail to see them as realistic. I’m glad she included the last 3 ideas. In my personal experience, those matter far more than anything else that was shared. As a Christ following woman, wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, employee, homeschool parent & youth leader,, I have found that it is matters of the heart that leave the legacy that HE has trusted me to live out. As Papa God’s daughter, I do not see HIM as wanting me to hold back my excitement for the first 15 minutes… Nor do I see HIM wanting me to delicately choose when to share my burdens with HIM. The men in our lives are the primary example of who CHRIST is to our children. This make both me and my husband long to model that running to HIM with excitement or tears from the day. I could speak to so many other areas of this post but I will stop here as to not monopolize or discount what I hope were pure intentions from today’s writer. So in summation, consider setting your eyes and hearts on The ONE who gifted you with friends and family. Seek HIS heart and direction on how to offer Jesus-Appeal. You may find this includes one or more of the above mentioned ideas. If so, walk that out to the best of your ability & GOD will honor that. ~In sincere efforts to speak against any unwarranted pressure today’s message may have put on my fellow sisters in CHRIST, Kris
Good word!
this article is very true, men, unlike we women dont walk in the door ready to talk like our girlfriends, Ive tried this approach with my husband and it works, he is more relaxed which makes the evenings more relaxing
We once were the recipients of a special treat.. Knowing my husband grew up in Memphis and a BBQ fanatic, a friend surprised him with ribs mail ordered from a favorite restaurant in Memphis. It was an unexpected gesture of gratitude tailored to his taste and it was great. We have another friend that brings back a styrofoam container of BBQ sauce from a certain restaurant in Memphis when they go there. It is the only way the sauce is sold. Hospitality on the road! “B&B”
These are some great ideas. I’m not married, but there are a few of these that I can use with my father to encourage him, bless him and let him know that he’s loved and appreciated.
I’m new to the hospitality thing, but I like to give giant mugs away with goodies inside, make it themed. Like chocolate or something else. Those are nice surprises and just a small way to put a smile and someone’s face and let them know they’re appreciated.
Thanks for hosting this giveaway. My cousin lives in Georgia, so if I win, I’d give the prize to her
She’s a mom with four kids 
Love and hugs from the ocean shores of California, Heather
Thank you for a great post today – fantastic ideas!
I love to send care packs to ‘long distance’ family & friends – sometimes a great book find, a nice scarf or small accessory, an artwork by my children and a favorite candy / tea / coffee! It always comes with a handwritten note to share with them – in the hope of encouraging & showing love to them.
On extending hospitality to strangers, our local Christian radio station runs a ‘drive thru difference’ regularly. They encourage listeners to pay for the coffee order for the car behind when they are going through the drive thru for their morning coffee. What a blessing!
In so far as away from home hospitality I keep bottles of water in my car and $5.00 gift cards to various fast food restaurants tucked in my purse. When we are out and about and see someone who is in need we are able to supply offer a small gift that can mean volumes to a person who needs some encouragement.
I love the ideas to welcome my husband home from work.
Some of the things we do for others when we travel is give a homemade gift basket of their favorites. Or something as simple as a card and a gift card to Starbucks – or someplace they enjoy to “Take a breather”
I would have to ask hubby about the B & B. But please put me down and if we can’t go I would love the surprise giveaway I am sure.
“B & B”
I so want my dear husband and best friend to feel welcome and loved when he comes home. His job is high-stress and he puts in long hours so that when he comes home, he is able to devote time to the family. He has helped me through so many difficult times in my life, including supporting me through resigning from a job that I have so loved for 6 years. Now that I will be “retired” in 3 months, I want to reflect upon how I can be a support for my wonderful husband. Thank you for the great ideas!!
When visiting someone in te hospital, I like to take up a magazine or book that is about their hobby or interest, and I also takethem some scented hand sanitizer and lotions from Bath and dy. If they have kids that might be visiting them often, I will take up sticker boooks and coloring activities. “B&B”
Great idea! I also like to take a roll of quarters for the family to spend on snacks/refreshments.
B&B
I like to send out care packages to friends, family members and people who I have never met who belongs to a friends of mine church or thenursing home that they go to, I have crocheted lap pads for the nursing home, I put togather care packages based on things that they may like, for those who love to bake right now I am making flavored extracts and vanilla sugar for their baking needs.
Praying for you for a quick recovery and lots of rest..
I live to far away to benefit from the “B &B”, but surprise gift would be great.
When we traverl to visit our daughters we often take them to their favorite restaurant and let them know how much we love them.
Hello to Karen. Darlene and Ladies that have participated in this two week study. I have learned so many lessons in hospitality. I have enjoyed the input of each and every one of Karen’s special guests. Thank you so much Karen! With God’s help I’m hoping to apply many of the ideas I’ve learned.. Darlene your ideas are wonderful, and take us back to our best friend and neighbor, our hubby.
I enjoyed watching over my son and daughter-in-love’s new apartment home while they were gone on their honeymoon. We ended the week picking them up at the airport and bringing them back home..
Darlene, so pleased to see you over here! Karen, sorry you’re sick.
So, to be honest, this post is coming on a day when I’m not feeling too much like making my home a haven for my hubby to come home to. My personal circumstances with the kids today are making it a bit tough. But after reading your post, I simply thought: I might not be able to do all of these, ummm, EVER, on a single day.(7 kids) But I can make a difference by doing just one, or two. And truthfully, it is the attitude behind these actions that makes the real difference. So, I’m off to put dinner in the crockpot, stop feeling sorry for myself, and make sure my husband knows he is loved today. Oh, AND I love to give a small gift card to Starbucks with a set of mugs since I love coffee. That’s my winter go-to gift. In the summer, I like to give a simple pitcher, small pack of sugar and some fresh lemons for a sweet lemonade.
We have new neighbors about to move in…I’m thinking maybe a Target gift card with a few cleaning items for all the things you need in a new house.
I would love the “B&B” getaway!!!
Thanks!!!
via email:I read this and thought, oh my! I get home from work after my husband. I fix dinner and start picking up house, laundry while he sits… So I guess this was not terribly applicable now. When I stayed home with preschoolers, it was applicable. I want terribly to be more hospitable. Thanks so much for your book and your blogs.
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I am praying for you you be healed, Karen.
Hope you feel better soon, Karen – praying for you!
My hospitality on the road idea is simply to send a themed care package to someone who is struggling or who could use something to brighten their day. If I know they like to cook, it might be a recipe along with ingredients to make it and the utensils needed or a cookbook and an apron and a box of tea; it might be several books and some tea and cookies to help them relax or a spa gift card; it might be a box of fun activities to do with their kids or visiting family kids; it might be something to make them laugh like a funny video or comics or a handwritten card full of good memories the two of us have shared.
I’ve really enjoyed this study, and I’ve been greatly blessed by it and everyone who has participated. Happy Easter!
We had an older neighbor who lost her sister, and while she was spending time with family, our family went and cleaned up her yard. A tangible way to show our love for her. “B&B”
I like to leave cookies or brownies in the mailbox for our postal carrier. In the super hot summer will put a bottle of cold water in mailbox when I see the truck on other side of road.
When my MIL died, we were was out of town for about a week. When we returned home a church friend brought over a simple basket of fruit and labeled it “We Care.” We were so very touched by this kind gesture.
When my in-laws were alive, my m-i-l was wheelchair bound, and it was hard for my f-i-l to bring her over. Plus, we live about 40 min. from where they lived, and when you’re 80 yrs. old that can be a long way to drive for a visit. Thanksgiving wound up being my holiday to cook for, but with them not wanting to come out, the next best thing was to cook it all and bring it to them. We bundled up the turkey in towels (we kept the turkey in the pan!), and took everything else out of the oven & right into the car. While it wasn’t the easiest meal to pack up and cart over, I know they really, really appreciated it and I’m glad we were able to spend it together now that they’re both gone.
I have a friend with a child with autism who is most comfortable at home so the other day we wanted to have lunch together so to make it easier for her I grabbed take and bake pizza from papa Murphy’s with what she really likes on it and took it to her house. We had a great time of fellowship where her son waspsy comfy. Hospitality on the road – your devos inspired me to do this. Thanks for the inspiration and encouragement!
“B&B”
I have a friend and coworker going through a divorce so every few days I bring her a card or sweet treat just to let her know I care and make sure she knows her worth. It’s a small thing but it does a lot to help lift her spirits and get her through another day.
I come from a military family and am married to a soldier. So mail has become a big part of our lives due to constant moves and deployments. My mom started this tradition of putting in book, notepads, sweets, t-shirts, magazines, etc to help our days become more bearable and loving. Now I do the same when my husband is gone…I add in his favorite stuff and include a video of us. “B & B”
My hospitality on the road thing to do is: pack a picnic basket with homemade brownies or cookies on a pretty plate, 2-pretty china teacups & saucers & spoons, a little bitty basket of teas bags & coffee bags, a little pretty bowl of sugar cubes, and take along a pump style caraffe of hot water. I like to share with people who are recovering from illness or in the nursing home & stay and visit with them while we have “tea”. When we’re done, everything goes back in the basket & it’s easy to transport to and from.
I’d LOVE the “B&B”, but we live in Missouri, so that’s not an option. Thanks so much for your hospitality study – it’s been very insightful for me & very encouraging. Hope you get to feeling good enough to enjoy the Easter weekend, Karen!
I’m going to visit family over Easter, and I am bringing banana bread for breakfast in the mornings and little easter baskets for everyone (even though they are all adults – everyone loves a little Easter candy!). My mom and grandma are so good about hospitality on the road…whenever they come to visit, even if it is just for the day, they always bring a little goody bag of treats for me or the house or my husband.
I’ve enjoyed this study, but I wish today’s post would have had been more inclusive for wives and mothers who work outside the home. The vast majority of the time, I leave for work before my husband and get home from work after him.
As a youth pastors wife on a smaller budget we don’t have tons of money to spend on big holiday celebration things. However, I love holidays and special days and want to make EVERY one of them count! The Target dollar spot is a wonderful thing for finding goodies for each and every holiday. I’m able to make little care packages, themed cell group nights, send gift boxes to family members, or just surprise a friend with an unexpected gift way more often then not. I can usually find some darling thing, tissue paper and the gift bag all for under $5! It brightens my day to receive a gift and so I know it can cheer others!
“B&B”
Karen, I do so hope you get to feeling better soon! I am going through the same thing right now and my housekeeping is paying for it!
Regarding hospitality on the road, the idea has been touch upon in a couple of posts, but I would like to flesh it out a little more…always keep a few gallon-sized ziplock bags in your car filled with water bottles, pre-packaged snack crackers (like peanut butter on crackers), or any other snacks that keep well for a good while, a travel-sized pack of baby wipes, kleenex, hand-sanitizer, there a lots of great travel-sized personal care items and pre-packed single-serving foods out there. You can also include kid-friendly items like stickers and so forth. Then, when you are in your car and pass someone at an intersection you can hand them a whole bag of goodies to make there day a little more bearable. Also, I would encourage you to include a tract or small booklet about how much Jesus loves them!!!
B&B
Okay, I think I have read this list before, some place else.
I work with seniors, one of my sweet ladies moved about 20 miles away, so I go an take her out to dinner every couple of weeks. She is always glad to get a phone call from me, especially if I ask her about doing dinner together. It makes her day. So much joy for both of us.
yes, please enter me for the B&B drawing.
I have not done any of these things but have learned them from others. A lady I used to work with would bake something and leave a goodie tray for her mailman, trashman and her hair dresser. She would often times leave a gift card or money. I think the gift basket idea is a great idea. That is an idea I will probably use.
(B&B) This really isn’t an on-the-road idea, but it doesn’t involve a planned hospitality event. I can’t claim credit for this idea – I saw a neighbor do this and sorely wish I had done it myself. We occasionally have salesmen (or women) come to our door – sometimes in the heat of the summer. My neighbor declined what they were selling but gave them bottles of water to refresh them while they walked. Such a thoughtful gesture!
I think that the idea of this list is wonderful. It is not very practical for every day life, especially for women who have a job outside of the home and then another full time job taking care of their family. I do however, believe that the concept is very sound. The point is not that we do all of the things on the list but that we make an EFFORT! I find that my husband is often placed at the bottom of my list of “to do’s” and I need to put him first after my relationship with God – even if it is just a sweet note left in his lunchbox, or maybe running a comb through my hair before he comes home from work.
Hospitality on the road – I like to pick up lunch and take it to my grandmother. Something as simple as picking up lunch or even making a picnic basket and taking it to someone who is unable to get out on their own is a perfect example of hospitality on the road. “B&B”
When it comes to Curb appeal….I am thinkin’ “Pick Two!” Go from there!! Quite a list!! I could manage two, though. Anyone??? : )
The list seemed overwhelming to me, too, at first. Then I realized that they were all meant to be suggestions that we can choose from . . . one might fit you better and another would be something I would do. Great Ideas!
An idea that I got from a friend…at Christmastime…send a small artificial tree. Attach little paper scrolls to branches of the tree with pretty ribbon. On the pieces of paper are Bible verses that I have prayed for the person I’m sending the tree to. You could also adapt this idea for Easter. “B & B”
Hospitality on the road. I take the second loaf that most of my bread recipes make and give it to different neighbors. I once had a woman say to me, “well thank you, I can’t figure out why you would do this, though”. I felt a little funny, but love heals all, and I am reminded that I should continue giving bread. Jeannine
Thank you for these great ideas! Seemingly simple but what an impact! As for hospitality on the road – I keep a small tub filled with dollar store or clearance finds that I’ll put together to run over to someone. I always keep brownies on hand. (yes, they’re my favorite but I love to share them, too!) B&B
I have 3 friends who are dealing with cancer this year. I made and sent cards & encouraging statements for Valentines day and just sent out crosses (made with plastic canvas & yarn). Also sent one to a friend whose dad just died of cancer. She really appreciated it. My little sister lives in GA but she is a single mom so while she could benefit from a get away don’t know if she would be able to go or not & while I would love a get away can’t travel right now.
Good afternoon!! I am really enjoying the hospitality postings!!! My only comment is that today’s posting, wonderful as it was for a stay at home mom, did not apply to me, i felt. There are so many women that are having to work outside the home and, like myself, arrive AFTER the husband and children have been home awhile, that I felt left out in to posting for today. Any ideas for working women in my situation?? Any help or ideas would be SO GREAT!!! I’ve been trying the crock pot for the cooked meals and ‘scents’ of home but there is just NO way I can do this one…. however nice it would be!! It’s all I can do to come home, listen to my children rattle off non-stop, as they are walking out the door headed to work and recoup from a hard days work while looking at my home that appears to have three teenage tornadoes run through it…… sigh……
“B & B”
I do one thing for sure I am card maker so I will make a batch of generic cards ( ex. bday cards him/her, get well, thank you and sympathy) and I will give this to them. However with the new site Pinterest I usually find something on there that works for the people I am going to go visit. We just spent part of our spring break in Chicago with a cousin seeing museums. I put a basket together of wine glasses with chalk bottoms (I made them) coasters, chocolates and some wine. It was well received.
Ive recently began to see such an importance in being hospitable to others. I’ve taken food to others when they’ve had a rough week. I’ve also given them a word of encouragement in a card with a little cash that they may use as they see fit. Generally I just try to listen to my spirit about each person that it might meet their need. I’d love to go to the “B & B”
I had the opportunity this week to give on the road hospitality to my son-in-laws family at. the hospital as they were spending the day waiting for a loved one to recover. Knowing they would be at the hospital all day, I thought I could bring lunch so they didn’t have to worry about that. I brought publix subs, iced teas, chips, and chocolate chip cookies. We gave them some hugs, encouraging words, and prayed with them before we left. They were very appreciative. “B&B”
we will be getting new neighnours soon as a house next door just sold. I think that maybe I will go and introduce ourselves make a welcome card and maybe some flowers and cookies or dessert of some sort and then maybe bring a meal or something and ask if they need any help with moving and maybe if kids offer to watch the kids while t hey move and unpack if there are kids
My mom is fantastic at sending hospitality via snail mail. Since she lives in NC and my family lives in TX, she sends us care packages at least every other month with some of our favorite goodies like hot tea, gum, t-shirts, flip flops (in summer), or anything Elmo for our lil’ man. She never forgets sending a card on a major holiday. She is definitely an inspiration in this area for me.
This has been a wonderful study and I have learned so much about hospitality! Thanks for all the great guests that you had, as well as your book!
My husband (a pastor) and I deliver homemade chocolate chip cookies with a hand-written note to people who visit our church for the first time. It has been the start of some meaningful friendships over the years.
We would love to win the “B &B” get-away
Have a blessed Easter.
I had a friend who has been depressed and stressed for the past month. I recently made a “relaxation bag” with candles, body wash, and cookies. More importantly though, were my prayers.
Would love to win the B&B getaway
I recently had a friend who was stressed and depressed and made her a “relaxation bag”, complete with soaps, candles, and cookies. But, more importantly were my prayers
Would love to win the B&B getaway
My hospitality on the road idea is simple: bless someone with a listening ear and a phone card. I never realized how many people live far away from their loved ones. I saw this all the time when I worked in the peds icy. Parents wanted to update families and couldn’t because they didn’t have a way to pay. Now this is less of an issue, but still can help people far away from their support systems.
B and b, please!
My sweet new friends…what a blessing this study has been (and will continue in the days ahead) to me. I have an entirely new approach for how much things mean to others and me. I love to take something homemade when I go to someone’s house….it makes them feel special that I took the time to make them. I have a church friend with her two daughters that has cancer right now. She has spent many days in and out of the hospital. So anything I do for her I feel lifts her spirits….she loves chick-fil-a lemonade so when I visit in the hospital I take her a gallon of lemonade and a cute tervis tumbler so she can enjoy it. Now that she has been home more….I take dinner over every Monday. I don’t ask…I just do it because I know that my friend is much like me and would say no…so I don’t give her a chance to say no.
I would love to win the B&B get away…I only live 30 minutes away so it would be perfect for a little R&R….be blessed today for you are a blessing to someone! Praying for Karen to feel better…it is stinky to be sick over Easter.
Smiles and Blessings Abound,
Robin
One of my favorite things to do to bless a family outside of our home and I’ll admit I have not done this in awhile, is to bring dinner to them.
I did this a lot when life was a little more simple. I would make a nice pot pie or casserole. My whole family and I would pile in the car and visit some friends that could use a blessing. We would be talking, the kids would mention they are hungry, and I would ask if they would like to have a meal together.
Of course, they would be into the idea. As they would be looking around for something to throw together, I would run out to the car and get the casserole. It always blessed the socks off of them
As school draws to a close for summer, I think a basket for the teacher would be nice. For our teachers I will include a gift certificate to everyone’s favorite, huge used bookstore and packages of lemonade and sweets for long summer days!
I try to take a center-piece to whose ever house we are going to. Simple flowers or a cute arrangement for special occasion is a nice thought! Also, I would like to get better at hospitality away from home, so looking for ideas
My mom was a waitress most of her life so I know how dependent those in the hospitality world are on tips. When we dine out, we try to tip above and beyond to bless the person who served us. When you stay in a hotel, don’t forget the cleaning staff. Next time I plan to take a little something special along to leave with the tip as an extra blessing.
I have loved all of the ideas! Although I am not very good at hospitality away from home, I have recently realized that even if I don’t have time to cook, I can take something to someone who is sick or who has just come in from traveling by picking up a pre-prepared dinner from the grocery store (rotisserie chicken or lasagna). They appreciate it just as much as if I had made it myself! It’s the thought that counts! B&B for me please!
via email: Hospitality on the road
This may not be exactly what you’re looking for…. Years ago my parents home burned down during the night. I live an hour away and traveled up there when called by a cousin. I was shocked the next day when people would stop to be nosey but NO ONE brought any food, toiletries, necessities to them. We had to make a trip to town and buy shampoo, toothpaste, toothbrushes, soap, etc. They lost everything. Even the church family didn’t do anything until the home was built back and then they had a shower. That layed a burden upon my heart so now every time I hear of a house fire where all is lost I try to do what I can. Recently a friend’s home burned and she had to stay a couple of nights at a motel. I got her some snack foods, shampoo, toothbrush, toothpaste, soap, search a word book, pens, and a laundry basket. She came to my work place this week to thank me for the prayers and the much needed items.
Should this idea win I’m in south Georgia so I might could possibly do the B&B depending on where it’s located.
Happy Easter and Hope you feel better soon!!! I’m really enjoying these challenges:)
Helen
There is an organization called “Cinderella’s Closet” my Church Life Group (Jr and Sr High girls) had the opportunity to be a part of. We volunteered as sales girls (well, I was a lady). This program collects donated prom dresses, shoes, evening bags and jewelry and GIVES them to girls in the community. I also substitute teach at our local high school and discovered one of the girls had been given $30 to purchase a prom dress. I had the privilege of taking this young lady “shopping” this week during Easter break. We had a ball! She found a dress, bag, and earrings for the prom. We also had lunch and ran some errands. As a retired teacher, I am finding some rewarding activities to encourage and mentor our youth……plus get my “kid fix.” I’ve never met a child I didn’t like!
I’ve done candle baskets when we go to a friends home or a basket of a variety of our home canning, both gifts are always accepted warmly. Lately though I’ve tried to focus my gifts more on those who need them. I love our friends and church family, and they enjoy our gifts, but they don’t NEED them. We have started focusing in a specific single mother or father with children, or a young family trying to make ends meet. Then we buy a large tub that has a lid and begin collecting. We scour the clearance racks, sales and coupons to fill the tub. When we to and visit friends, we tell them what we are doing and so far everyone has wanted to help. We buy anything that they may need and put it in the tub. It’s awesome to see everyone come together to help others, especially those who can use the blessing. The last tub we did I was even able to include a new handmade blanket for a new single mom and her baby. Once the run is ready, we take food and the tub over (with permission to “drop” by). We try to include a note with it with the names of everyone who was involved, and asking them to give the glory to God, right where it should be!!
Forgot to mention…loved loved loved forays study! I miss the mark so often, but now I have a list of guidelines to follow and strive for. Thank you!!!
First, let me say that I agree with ALL of your ideas on “Curb Appeal”. I have done most of those things through 48 years of marriage. Now that we are retired, it’s a different atmosphere. Ladies in my Bible study group were saying last week, that “times have changed”. Wives don’t have to be like the wives of the 1950′s. I disagreed with them completely and said so. God expects us to love, respect and submit to our husbands always. That doesn’t mean we don’t have a say……we have INFLUENCE with our husbands if we respect them and show it. That’s the way God planned a marriage relationship to be.
HOSPITALITY ON THE ROAD – we live in a pretty isolated area. When a neighbor is ill, just home from the hospital, or some other emergency, I love to take a basket to them. I use containers that do not need to be returned. I pick up lg. baskets at thrift shops and put a complete prepared meal in it. I decorate with whatever is available to make it a ‘gift basket’, not just a meal. Pretty paper plates and napkins give it a festive touch. It is such a great way to show Christ’s love through me.
Thanks for sharing, I think this is a great idea. We often make a meal to bless others and I think dressing it up a bit, when it is appropriate and affordable, with something like plates and napkins makes it more special and is a wonderful touch!
I coupon and love to keep bodywash and lotions and other goodies on hand for impromptu gift. When a friend was down I put together a “spa” gift and delivered it to her at work. It was just what she needed. I also like to garden and share plants with others. I left an easy to care for snake plant with a card and instructions for plant care for my new neighbor as a welcome to the neighborhood gift. She loved it. “B&B”
My daughter-in law lives in Arkansas (I live in Texas). she has a close friend that is going through a divorce and has two teen age girls. I don’t know her friend but felt I needed to do something to encourage her. So, I sent her a Starbucks gift card, an encouraging card and a book by Max Lucado. She asked me to be her friend on Facebook and then asked if I would adopt her. I felt very blessed.
Meant to add B & B to my comment
LOVE the “B&B” The Easter egg toast was amazing and I will certainly try it this year! My favorite hospitality on the road is to pay for the car behind me at any drive thru. I enjoy doing random acts of kindness and telling the cashier that all I want is for her to tell them that Jesus loves them.
I usally pick up the grandkids when I get off work and sometimes pull in the garage about the same time as my husband. The grandkids get picked up about an hour later depending on work schedules so today’s list sounded nice but. . . . That said I do need to work on other times to show my husband how much he is appreciated
When my kids were in public school, I took cards, chocolate, and special bookmarks to the secretaries at their school on Administrative Professionals Day. They were always so helpful and I wanted them to feel appreciated!
I cannot take credit for this, but during our very hot summers, some families in our city would leave coolers filled with ice and bottle water on the curb on garbage pick up days so the guys on the trucks could get something cool to drink. I know the workers appreciated it. B & B.
When my kids went away to college, I sent them care packages during exams.
Happy Easter weekend everyone! I love all of the ideas on how to bless husbands, thank you. I like to bake so I try to bake goodies that are different and tasty. I also love good smelling candles so I will bring a favorite scent along. My friends are so varied, so depending on who they arae will determine what Iwould do. reader friends – books, strugggling friends – something inspirational, homey friends – trinket for the house etc. B&B
One thing I think would be fun to do to take hospitality on the road would be to take some different teas, teapot, cups, pretty napkins, fancy cookies, etc. in a basket to someone’s house just to have tea together! I haven’t tried this idea yet but really want to do it!
Hey Kelly,
Started that ministry at our church. It has been a huge blessing to me. You should start it you won’t be disappointed. Its amazing what is shared over tea.
“Book exchange” via the mail: It’s nice to send a book in the mail (something that I’ve finished reading) to someone who also likes to read and would enjoy a “new” story. B and B.
Taking a meal to someone who is sick or just had a baby is a great way to take hospitality on the road.
There are many elderly and disabled members of our church who don’t get to come often. In order to make them feel special I started a traveling outreach ministry. It is Traveling Tea Time. Preparations begin with prayer and packing up tea varieties, sweeteners, and oven-baked cinnamon rolls/or other goodies.. A personalized card of encouragement is ready for delivery at Tea Time. Upon arrival, a vintage table cloth, fancy tea set, and all the goodies are unpacked.
Each visit I read a brief devotional out of Tea Time with God. Traveling Tea Time concludes with sharing personal requests and praying specifically for these needs.
BB
I enjoy sending cards or notes to friends far away. A handwritten note in the mailbox is a great way to tell someone you love them, appreciate them, pray for them, etc. I also enjoy sending little surprise packages from time to time. When we visit friends out of town (especially when we’re staying overnight) I like to bring a little gift of appreciation along – a potted plant, homemade bread and jam, a pound of coffee and some pretty beverage napkins, etc.
In regard to today’s post, I think one of the most important things we can do for our husbands is to be respectful of them in our conversations. When talking with friends, am I criticizing and complaining about my husband or am I honoring him? Do I point out his faults or his strengths? Do I make sarcastic remarks that, while intended to be funny, are really degrading? Honoring my husband with my words is one of the most important ways I can show my love for him – whether he is within hearing distance or not.
B&B – It’s our 20th anniversary this year. That would be a fabulous getaway and within driving distance.
My husband and I are planning to take a cross country road trip in the fall–Lord willing. We are both drawn to missions and he located a small town on our route that has a homeless shelter. Their website has a list of their needs. Our plan is to stop there and take some of the items on their list. Just typing this I realize that we should also take something special to the staff that does such a great job of providing this service. Any suggestions?
“B&B”
I like your idea of also blessing the staff.
I might fill little cellophane or tiny paper bags with samples of lotion or chapstick and tie it up with a pretty ribbon and a tag made of cardstock or scrapbook paper cut with pinking shears. On one side of the tag I’d put a scripture verse like:
Galatians 6:8-10 “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do’nt give up”.
or another lifting verse like: Matthew 11:27-29/ Isaiah 40:30-31
On the other side of the tag I’d put the message “You’re Appreciated!” or “You’re a Blessing!”
then I’d put these in a basket or tin to be placed on the staff’s main desk for them to help themselves to.
Or I might just find or make an encouraging card to place for the staff to see and know that they’re appreciated.
love & blessings, tonya
We do not travel a lot but when we do we bring food for the other family and usually pay for the kids to get gas for their car and a movie out.
Feel better!
Happy Easter!!
Karen – Thank you so much! I have enjoyed the entire study/discussion immensely.
These days it is so rare to get a hand-written note or card from friends faraway. I still think it is one of the nicest ways to let someone know they are being thought of. I also like to get small souvenirs when I am on trips to send to faraway friends to let them know I am thinking of them.
“B&B”
I like to send an anonymous hand written note to a friend letting her know what a difference she makes in other people’s lives. “b & b”
I love sending care packages to people. I sent them to my husband when he went to war and it brought me joy and peace. Now, we send them to our 2 kids in college…so much fun! I try to include items they can’t buy in their college state and things that remind them of home.
This has been the best study. I’ve loved all of your guests and their wonderful tips!! Thank you.
“B&B”
A teen in our youth group just started a new ministry as an outreach for our church. It’s an outreach to those who sit on street corners holding signs. In Feb. my children and I helped the teens and others pack brown lunch bags with small toiletries, granola bars, canned meats, water, bibles, gloves. The bags are then available to church members to put in their vehicles to pass out to individuals they see waiting on street corners. Donations have again been requested so another bag packing will be coming soon. We’ll be there!
like to send (and get!!) kind notes in the mail!
Hope you are feeling better, Unfortunately, the crud is everywhere and it’s coming around again. I work in healthcare and many have it going around again. When I was married (recently divorced) we traveled to some of his relatives in NC and they had lived up North. We brought baskets of goodies like real maple syrup and items that they might not have found in their area. It was a thank you gift for having us stay at their home. It is more work to have someone over so we wanted to let them know we were thankful for their hospitality.
I decided to show my husband today’s Curb Appeal post which was a blessing as we had a lovely conversation as to which points were the most meaningful to him. He chose four and I am excited to put them into practice in order to honor and bless him. God bless you and thank you for this wonderful study.
When I get in a baking mood for muffins, I double up then share with several homebound ladies in my community. When we travel I usually fix up a gift basket for the family then follow up later with a thank you note. I have some family far away and I occasionally surprise them with a goodie box by mail. Would love the B&B.
Thanks for a great study. Happy Easter to all.
When I was away at college my 1st year, (3 decades ago), the best gift I received was a care package, which included an oatmeal canister filled with homemade oatmeal cookies. In fact I probably couldn’t name any other gift during that time, or that decade for that matter.
We make cookies, not every week, but often enough. We make enough to share with another family, co-worker, neighbor. We like to put them in pretty boxes, decorated with ribbons or flowers. Our favorite to give is Oatmeal of course. They are healthier than a lot of other cookies, and the aroma of vanilla and cinnamon linger long after they come out of the oven.
I had a little idea to start in my office – purchase a small trinket of some type, attach an anonymous note expressing a sweet sentiment and wishes for a happy day. Secretly place the item and note on someone’s desk. Also on the note would be instructions to keep it going by attaching the note to another small trinket or candy and passing it along. Seems like it would be a fun little secret pal game.
“B&B”
I’m in a MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) group at my church. I had the idea to look for the big pink or blue baby announcement ribbons on mailboxes in and around our neighborhood. When one pops up, I get a basket of goodies: coffee, chocolate, some type of bath product, maybe a homemade treat along with the MOPS brochure and any other informational products I have. Not only is it an immediate treat for the new mommy it has also linked her too a wonderful ongoing resource for the new adventure of motherhood!
*B and B:)*
A member of our church has began a nursing home ministry. His ministry focuses on the residents of one of our local nursing homes. However, I wanted to send some special love to the employees. I made a tray of cookies and sent that with a note to let them know how much they are appreciated and that I am praying for them.
I like to gift people with a homemade cookie platter.
I love to bake so I often drop a basket of goodies off to friends or neighbors. I am often amazed how the Lord puts certain people on my heart to bring the goodies to. I sometimes don’t always know the reason either. I have never had anyone disappointed by a simple kind gesture. B&B
I like to bring meals with a special touch…a bar of chocolate or hot tea in a mason jar…and for surgery or new mommies a pair of cozy socks and a heating pad.
B&B
In my culture, we always take a present for our hostess when staying over. I’ve been the receipient of a small plant, a pineapple, a baked dessert etc. While you wouldn’t think of these as a hostess gift, it was great to be thought of and I like practical gifts so thoroughly enjoyed them! So just some ideas, gifts don’t have to be extravagant!
Taking neighbors homemade cookies.
Would love the trip!
“B&B”
I kind of let my feelings about this post override everything else, but didn’t want to leave without saying that I was really blessed by all hospitality on the road comments left by readers!!! You have all really blessed me and given me some great ideas for blessing others! I often feel discouraged because we don’t get a lot of company. I do some of these things mentioned and some hospitality on the road stuff, but sometimes I get discouraged…you have all revitalized me in this area…so thanks!!!
When we go to visit our children, I try to take along cookies and something special for our grandchildren too–they live in Tx and Co–a long way from our home in NE. I am too far away to use the B&B, but maybe I could be put in the drawing for the other gift. Thank you. Karen, I hope you will feel better very soon & thank you for doing this Book Study. I do have your book, purchased long before this online study was mentioned, and have found it so helpful and also have enjoyed the other readers’ comments!!
“B&B” It would be so nice to go to a bed and breakfast.
I purchased so cute little bible verse note cards that were a dollar ( we you talked about doing 40 days of encouragement) I have left them in a varitey of places for random people.
We live in a military town with lots of foreign families. Our family is part of a ministry that reaches out to college students from out of the country, and we invite them to our house on holidays. This past Christmas, we hosted Masa, a college student from Japan, and we made him a goody bag with “American” goodies. Inside was a Starbucks gift card, (of course,) a bag of cheetos, some chapstick, a gift card to subway, a few small candy bars, and a small Bible. He loved the goody bag, and couldn’t stop raving about it.
That night we all added him on facebook, and his status said, “I love America. They are so friendly. They treat me like family even though I am not.” That really blessed our family that we were able to share our love and hospitality during a time when many feel so lonely – he mentioned that other students were eating Christmas dinner all alone. Next year we’ll have to have the whole international dorm over!! B&B
“B&B” … One thing that I like to do is take lunch — homemade or picked up in a deli — to an elderly person and eat with them while we visit for a while.. I especially like to do this for people who have little or no family nearby. It seems to really brighten their day, and I have made some wonderful friends who are full of widsom. I live a couple of hours away from Madison, and my pastor husband and I would absolutely LOVE to win the getaway at the “B & B” …. thanks for offering this study.
I recently saw this idea on another web site several weeks ago and have since done it myself. You take a few things that are favorites to the person you are giving to and wrap them or place them in a brown paper bag. Then tie them up with string and put these words on the front of it, “Brown Paper Packages wrapped up in string, these are a few of my favorite things.” I so enjoyed doing this for someone.
“B & B”
One of the things I like to bring, esp. to those who have just moved into a house or apt. is paper products. For ex. SAM’s size paper towels & toilet tissue packages. One can never get too much of these items and is always much appreciated.
I forgot to put B&B. Would love to go here!
Our bible study groups makes dinners for the week for new mommas. I recently had the opportunity to be on the receiving end of it and it was so wonderful!!
I believe I first saw this idea on Pinterest, but you can prepare and keep “blessing bags” in your car to give to someone you encounter who may be homeless or in need. A “blessing bag” is a ziploc you fill with items such as gum, mints, trail mix, a bottled water, toothpaste and toothbrush, etc.–small items that could be luxuries to someone without a home. You can also add a small copy of the New Testament or some verses typed or handwritten on a small piece of paper. Keep them in your glove compartment so a bag is with you to share when needed. “B and B”
One of the nicest things I got when I got home from the hospital after having my babies was a full meal from KFC (including dessert!) I remembered this and this is something we still get together at work and do for someone who has just had a baby.
It’s fun to bless someone when you are at a restaurant. You figure out which tables your server has and then ask them to give you the bill for one of their tables. It’s so fun to watch someone when they find out their bill has been paid!
“B & B”
I have sent notes to friends from highschool sometimes folded into the little triangles and pull-tab squares like we used to fold them way back when just for a little nostalgia. I also like to take my momma friends little care packages every now and then that includes a magazine, some bubble bath, and chocolate that I’ve removed the fat and calories from (white out the numbers in the nutrition info and write in zeroes
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I like to put together a basket of fresh baked muffins to take to others. I make 3-4 types of mini-muffins that freeze well and deliver them with a card or maybe some Chai Tea Mix. I find that a lot of times others bring dinner after a baby, surgery, or death in the family. Bringing muffins gives them an easy breakfast or snack throughout the day and they can freeze them to enjoy later as well.
I like to take others a basket of homemade muffins and maybe some Chai Tea Mix. I make an assortmant of 3-4 types of mini-muffins that freeze well and take them to those who have had a birth, surgery/illness, or death in the family. Others often bring dinner, giving these muffins makes sure they have something quick and easy to grab for breakfast or a little snack. They can also freeze them and save them for a week when there is less food being brought over
Praying the creepy crud has creeped its way on down the road!!! I live about 4 hours from some of my closest family (mom, dad, siblings, etc.) so I’m thinking just calling to the local floral shoppe or bakery and having something delivered to them at work would be so much fun. I have an aunt that is having some issues right now with her adrenal gland (hormones) and she’s having a really rough time. I’m going to put together a little something for her to help encourage her and let her know that I am thinking of and praying for her! I’ve got to make a conscious effort to do better at reaching out to friends and loved ones!! Even just sending something like a card in the mail. . . . . . My pastor is getting ready to have knee replacement surgery tomorrow – I’m going to do something for him too!!
) So excited and reenergized from this study. In fact, we had friends over last night and we did all kinds of fun stuff (very out of my comfort zone) with our kids! LOVED IT!!!!! Love the ideas of making my hubby feel excited about coming home – I work outside the home, but my #1 priority is my family!!!
Thank you for the opportunity to have a chance for a great get away!!
“B&B”
One thing that I like to do on my road trips is any restaurant my husband and I go to, I leave a note to the waitor/waitress on the back of the receipt, even if they are sometimes tempermental. I usually say things like “You are an amazing person. Thank you for the kind-hearted service. God bless you!” and then I would sign my name. I know that not all of them will think much of it but I know that at one point, I will be writing it to some one who really needs to hear they are appreciated. I now do it at every restaurant, not just those on our road trip paths.
I just tried to post but I don’t think it went through. Anyhoo. When I go out with my husband I leave a note an the receipt at any restaurant we go to. I use to just do this on road trips but now I do it at every restaurant. I usually say something like “You are such a great person. Thank you for the kind-hearted service.” I will sometimes say more that is personalized for each waitor/waitress. I know that most of them will not think much of it. I also know that at one point, atleast one of them will read it and it will be a day when they really needed to hear that they were appreciated.
B&B please!!
As a young cancer survivor, I try to reach out to others recently diagnosed. I bring them a basket with a journal, a blanket, some pj’s that button for those having a mastectomy, a small devotional and a few happies that I find here and there. I bring them supper too.
I like to make homemade cinnamon rolls and wrap them individually and put a scripture on each one, get to work before anyone else and have them sitting by the coffee pot. All the ladies are so appreciated and curious to who done it, later I see them have the scripture pinned to the bullentin boards or computers.
I forgot to add B & B, It’s not far for me.. Would love tohave a romantic time away with my honey..
Blessing bags. Little bags filled with practical items such as kleenex, handwipes, grocery giftcard, granola bars, mini deoderant and toothpaste. Keep them in your car so if you see a homeless person while you’re driving or someone that needs a little extra help at the grocery store you have something to give them.
“B&B”
Whenever I travel, I take small gifts (skin care sample sizes, etc.,) and leave with a note for the hotel guest clerk, housekeeping – anyone who has helped make my stay a pleasant one. These people are often overlooked and taken for granted – or take the blame! “B&B”